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"He goes "Sorry, I really wanted my lighter. I'll meet you in the morning."

-true stories from gayguy's life Smile
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"I was having sex with my then boyfriend on the couch at his mom's place, she comes home earlier than expected and just smirks at us, saying "If you get lube on the sofa, you're buying me new cushions. Have fun boys." and saunters in to her room."]]> http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/136/guys-dad-walked-in-on-us-both-butt-naked-him-on-top-of-me/ Sun, 05 Sep 2010 17:22:57 +0000 bisexualspace How do you fight the urge? http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/135/how-do-you-fight-the-urge/
"Back in my teens/twenties, I discovered that I was sexually attracted to both men and women, and have gone on to have relationships with both. My relationships with men have been "discrete" as I don't think my family and friends would understand/embrace the concept of bisexuality. In short, I'm an in-the-closet bi male.

A year ago, I got into a relationship with this amazing woman, which continues to this day, and have no complaints about. What is driving me crazy is -

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the urge to talk to someone in real life about my bisexuality, without it ruining my life (my deepest fears are my girlfriend, family and friends abandoning me) and
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the urge to touch/feel/caress another man (weirdly, not sex). I have never been unfaithful to my girlfriend but it scares the shit out of me that this feeling might lead to me doing something stupid/rash.

LGBT reddit, any words of advice?"


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Tell her and say it's just how you are and It can't change and you're not ashamed about it.

Bi male here. I'm married and didn't recognize I was attracted to men until 6 months ago. I told my wife. She is supportive. It looks like she is going to let us be a little open, if we keep talking through it here and there. If not, I'll continue feeling very curious and that will be that. I'm more concerned about whether she will let us be open at all, than whether, if open, I can go be with guys. I was scrawny with social anxiety until the past year. I've only been with 3 girls ever, and my wife is the only attractive one out of them, so I feel I have so much to experience.

I'm not out to anyone but my wife, but plan to make some gay friends and be out only to them. I have no desire to be generally out, ever, because my SO is female so I don't have to, & because the norm among my circle of friends is to be pretty uneasy and unwelcoming of male gayness.

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Similar situation here. My wife is hugely supportive, and is bisexual and out, herself. I would like to be openly out one day, even without any plans to date men. Why shouldn't I live as who I really am? Besides, it is an important step in support for all of the LGBT people of the world. If we want anyone to be able to safely come out, then we have to show that support by doing it ourselves. Remember, studies have shown the acceptance someone has of LGBT people increases very clearly the more out people they know. But, please don't think I am telling you what you have to do. I am just telling you how I see it.

OP, you need to talk to your girlfriend. Don't let this fester in you. It might be difficult, but it is important and if you don't come out to her, then hiding it is going to become more difficult, not less.

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Cheating is cheating, whether it's to satisfy a homosexual urge or a hetero one. If you were hetero, you would get the same urges about other women. It's just your hormones doing what they always do and pressuring you to want what you can't have, which is someone other than your girlfriend. It doesn't matter that it's a man.

As for talking about it, talk online, on Reddit or somewhere similar. I know someone who came out when he was drunk- about having experimented as a teenager. Not much changed, but for years afterwards guys were a bit funny around him- no more "bro hugs" when they were boozed, no more getting changed in the same room, and loads of digs about his sexuality- if anything relating to gayness or naked men came up, he'd be the first person mentioned every time.

That in itself was not really a big deal, but I can see he regrets letting it slip. He's been dating women only since I've known him, and says he tried it out to know if he was gay or not, and he didn't enjoy it at all.

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Other than the not cheating part, I think this is terrible advice.

Holding something inside like this is terribly stressful and it really wears on you after a while. Your example of the guy whose friends were weird after he told them is an exception, he just has shitty friends.

After I came out, my friends have been very supportive and/or just don't give a shit. I mean sure, there's the occasional gay joking etc, but it's not like I don't give them shit about themselves either.

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I've heard gay men be snarky about lesbians.
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I've seen lines drawn and distinctions made between "types" of lesbians or gay men.
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I've noticed confusion and prejudice about transgenderism.
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As a bisexual, I've personally been the target of discrimination and hurtful remarks from "strictly gay" folks.

Why do we do this to each other? Why are there these prejudices? I'm asking honestly, because I feel that a community that so greatly and so often suffers the slings and arrows of straight society ought to be as nurturing and protective of all its members as possible, rather than causing further hurt and harm.

So, to the gays and lesbians out there, what are your personal experiences that pertain to my concerns? Why do so many of you dislike bisexuality, or even any orientation other than your own? Have you had unpleasant experiences that are related, or is it simply a prejudice that has been passed along?

I will admit that for personal reasons, I'm particularly curious about the disdain and disregard with which many bisexuals are treated by the lesbian and gay community. We do feel left out, folks... what have we done to offend, and why can't we all just get along, eh?


fluffy-sauce response:

In my opinion it's all about heteronormativity. Bisexual and trans and all manner of other queer folk really weaken the position that the hetnorm parts of the community are building on. Just look at the focus on the fight for marriage, when ENDA would be such a bigger win in practical terms. What the public face of the LG community at large is trying to present the rest of the world with is "We're just like you. Monogamous, stable, consistent. Humdrum even. No crazy colors, no lisps, no femme men or butch women. We just like the same gender. It's not a choice". Acknowledging bisexuality and the reality of gender variance weakens that position. It's easier to get people to accept two very straight seeming men or women in a very traditional monogamous relationship than to accept that gender and sexuality aren't necessarily fixed, binary things for some people. It's harder to fight for the right to CHOOSE who you have sex with and how you will present yourself than to say "I have no choice, you should acknowledge us because we can't help what we do".

That said, I do believe that for the vast majority of us, there is no choice involved in our orientation or identity, only a choice of what to do with it. But really -- we have the RIGHT to be who we want, so the "it's not a choice, it's genetic" thing is a bit of an unprincipled cop-out.

I see alot of conversations, even on Reddit, like "Why are we even doing pride? It just gives the straight people more ammo against us, getting all lewd and strange in public". But if we're not fighting for that, what are we fighting for? In a much larger picture, we're fighting to keep society and the law from dictating what is acceptable in our lives and for the right to be ourselves, whatever form that may take.

Anyway, that's my 2 cents. In my opinion, there are alot of other reasons for rifts and divides in the LGBT community, but I think this is the biggest at the moment.]]> http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/132/why-are-there-rifts-in-the-lgbt-community-dont-we-need-each-other/ Fri, 25 Jun 2010 00:33:17 +0000 admin Is it Normal to Have Bisexual Feelings? http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/130/is-it-normal-to-have-bisexual-feelings/ Sexuality has been a taboo subject for many years whats your opinion? http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/130/is-it-normal-to-have-bisexual-feelings/ Tue, 15 Jun 2010 22:23:13 +0000 bisexualspace I was the girl your wife was going down on when you came home - w4m http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/123/i-was-the-girl-your-wife-was-going-down-on-when-you-came-home-w4m/

I was the girl your wife was going down on when you came home - w4m

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I don't know where else to post this. It seems like the most logical place. So, here we go:

Me: intelligent, fun and stunning bisexual that has always kinda been around since I am the younger sister of the best friend.

her: breathtakingly beautiful bisexual... your wife....

YOU: tall, funny, big-brother type who walked in on your wife going down on me when you came home from a long night.


I would like to first off apologize for my reaction to you walking in. If I had known for sure that it was just you, I wouldn't have been so quick to cover up all my goodies. I am smart enough to realize that if your wife has been tasting it, it is only fair that you get to see it.

Second, I would like to explain why there was no hand of welcome extended out to you:

1. I was supposed to have left to pick my brother up about 20 minutes before you walked in.(What can I say? I was sidetracked...)

2. you had a friend waiting for you in the livingroom.

3. you looked like you wanted to punch me in the face.

Under normal circumstances I would have simply asked you if you wanted to join in.... to be honest, reason 2 wouldn't have stopped me, reason 1 was just a minor setback, and well.... reason 3 was the real deal-breaker on that one. Reason 3 explains why I quickly put on my pants, grabbed my purse, and left the house without saying goodbye to you.


So, ok, things have cooled down a bit. Me and you are back to our normal retardedly witty banter, and since then me and your wife haven't done anything.... ok well.... we have had a few make-out sessions, and I may or may not have had my hand down her pants the other night.... but there has been no sex. (not for my lack of teasing-slash-trying... but I mean... you have seen your wife, and you know how awesome she is~can you really blame me?)

I know she has been with other girls in the past, and it never bothered you before. But maybe it was because this time it was at home, and maybe it was because this time it was with me, and there are real feelings there, and it isn't just about the sex....

But I promise I am not trying to steal her away. I don't even want to make you fully share~our work schedules are as such that I can be with her while you are at work, and you don't have to miss any time with her at all!!!

So please, please, please, PLEASE give her permission to be with me again. (....and again and again and again...) because, well... it is SO hard to find a girl[or guy]with the same dating goals and ideals as me, and me and her have this connection that is just like.... well I can't even explain it.

And sweetheart, I *PROMISE* that the next time you walk in on us, I won't cover anything up. I will give you a great display of myself&my goodies,then look you straight in the eye, and ask you why your clothes are still on. Yeah, it may be a little awkward since I have always had little sister status, but I think once you get in the mix of things you will forget all about my relatives.]]> http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/123/i-was-the-girl-your-wife-was-going-down-on-when-you-came-home-w4m/ Sun, 27 Dec 2009 23:21:40 +0000 admin things you could learn from my transgendered boyfriend http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/122/things-you-could-learn-from-my-transgendered-boyfriend/

things you could learn from my transgendered boyfriend

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Around craigslist there are a lot of public service announcements, people complaining about or suggesting what their ideal partner should be like. Most of these psa's feature a perverted, low-class guy requesting a young brain-dead nymphomaniac, or a radical feminist chick. The problem, I think, is the disconnect between the genders. Men blame their bizarre standards on testosterone, and women claim to be more cerebral and emotional.

My boyfriend is transgendered, and so lived until the age of 14 as girl full-time, then transitioned and is now completely and totally male. But he has lived both genders and knows the shit that each of them has to put up with! I think his enlightened attitude could help us all understand dating and relationships better, because he's been burned both as a girl and as a man.
He's too shy to do this himself, but let me condense his philosophy of sex and dating:

1. Treat people respectfully. Women do like having a partner that is attracted to them--even in that hungry, sex-wild way--but objectification is really unsexy. So, guys, respect that women are people, not just breasts.

2. Give up on understanding the other gender. Men will never understand what it feels like to be seriously sexually harassed or feel physically helpless against rape in the same way that women do. Women will never understand the pressure to stereotypically make money, put together the furniture from IKEA, and be a rock like men are supposed to. Advertising, movies, etc have brainwashed all of us into our gender roles, and we each think we have it bad. But this isn't a contest. Just be ready to concede that life sucks all around and no one but marketing specialists and beauty pageant coordinators is really responsible for it.

3. Guys, keep your perversions to yourselves. Your hormones might be screaming at you that the chick working the counter at Chipotle is totally fuckable, but keep it to yourself. Your girlfriend is likely not interested.

4. Ladies, learn to take a deep breath before freaking out. It's hard, I know. Our stupid hormones make us flip out more than we want to and sometimes feel out of control. But things will mellow out, often sooner rather than later if you stay calm.

5. Everyone needs to learn to compromise. Don't think that you understand how badly it might hurt your partner if you get a lapdance or cut your hair too short. Talk things through with the people you love. And play fair. If he's allowed a lapdance so is she. It's all about compromise and the rules change between every relationship.

6. Never say "my ex let me go to topless clubs with my friends" or "my ex let me pluck his eyebrows for him" or "my ex would go down on me as soon as I got home from work." Your ex isn't fucking here, are they? And believe it or not, your ex may have let you get away with murder--or, even worse, excessive manscaping--because of a low self-confidence problem. If your partner has the balls/ovaries to put their foot down about something, respect that they are mature and open enough to dialog about it instead of keeping it bottled up.

7. It's all about communication. Don't assume things. Don't assume that she'll hate the action comedy or that he hasn't seen the Notebook. Don't assume your bisexual girlfriend is automatically down for a threesome.

8. Don't try putting yourself in their shoes. Talk, listen, support, but don't ever lie and say that you really understand what someone has been through.

9. Guys, don't demand that a woman keep your house for you unless you are prepared to become the sole breadwinner for the household. Choose a decade to live in and stick to that decision.

10. Everyone--if monogamy is not for you, don't try. A lot of people have healthy, happy lives with nsa sex partners or no sex partners at all. A successful relationship is not necessary for a successful life. Many hearts have been broken by that guy/girl that tried to make it work but couldn't because some people are just polyamorous. Just be honest about it. And get friends that support you.

11. Don't force monogamy or polyamory on anyone else. People are kind of born leaning one way or the other. It's like trying to turn your friend straight so that you can be together. Not happening.

12. Have realistic expectations about your partner. Most men cannot have rippling muscles or earn six figures. Most women are not porn star/Betty Crocker hybrids. We're all just people that need to get over superficial stuff.
This is our attempt to have a more fair and balanced dating guide. Just be happy with who you are.]]> http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/122/things-you-could-learn-from-my-transgendered-boyfriend/ Sun, 27 Dec 2009 23:18:06 +0000 admin How I become bisexual http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/121/how-i-become-bisexual/


How I become bisexual (Homophobes - don't click here)

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It's a shame that lots of people don't understand
bisexuality or homosexuality. I'm not a homosexual, I
love women and always will. I just happened to be a
very sexual, so much that there are other "things" can
turn me on. Simply put - I am bisexual.

Speaking of bisexuality, it is a fine feeling. I said -
"it's a shame...", because many people don't even know
what are they missing. Everybody enjoys variety. Every
man can tell you that they are enjoy having sex
different ways. But for me, bisexuality is just another
variety. I understand a little of psychology, so I can
tell you that only people with a high sex-drive can
experience and become bisexual. There's nothing
abnormal with that. It is just unusual for our society,
that's why we have different opinion on that. That's
why I can't admit to my friends and I simply enjoy it
privately, but like I said it's perfectly fine.

There's all bunch of crap going on in the media about
homosexuality, that there is some sort of chemical
imbalance... Bull shet!!! It is a normal feeling to
experience sexual enjoyment with a partner of your own
sex. It's just when you have some sort of problems in
getting alone with people of opposite sex, because of
your stupidity, shame or other problems - that's when
you become homosexual. Simply because it's easier to
get alone with a person of your own sex. Of course,
there are cases when amount of certain hormones of the
opposite sex in your body is very high, so you are a
man, but look like a woman and act like one, and vice-
versa - that's the other case. That is the mother
nature has got involved. But it is very small amount
among all homosexuals.

Again, I'm not a homosexual, I just feel sorry for many
of them, because they are missing of great feeling of
sex with opposite sex. At the same time, I feel sorry
for all heterosexuals, who are missing of a unique
experience in their sex life.

Let me tell you how I become an "open-minded". It's all
started when my girlfriend had give me a pleasure that
I never experienced before. She licked my ass. That's
all. I was on top of her and I was very busy with
kissing her bottom, when she did that. I've got to tell
you, it was so pleasurable that I ejaculated just
because of that. Of course, I was very exited, I was on
top of her 69, I was kissing a person who I loved, my
penis and stomach had touched her fine body and
breasts, and when she licked me, it was just an "end of
the world" at the moment. So I was done.

For the first time in my life I ejaculated without
doing anything with my "tool" (other than being
squeezed between our stomacks). It wasn't inside of her
and no one even touched it. Wow! I didn't know that was
possible at all.

Later, we repeated the same, a few times. I always
loved it. But one time, I just started to analyse these
things. How come I loved it so much? Well, the answer
was simple. Because there are lots of erogenous zones
around the anus. That's why I loved it. It's not
because I was gay or didn't have any women around.
There is medical explanation for this kind of pleasure,
and I was experiencing it.

So that's when I realized that I've got some other part
of my body, that can gives me a sexual pleasure,
besides my penis. I wasn't even thinking about
bisexuality. I just enjoyed what she had given to me.

And she loved me too. She saw that there's something
she has done, that no one else had done to me before.
She felt and saw my cumming when she was kissing me.
She felt good about herself, because she could satisfy
me like no one else. When she saw that I could cum in
40 seconds, instead of our usual 50 minutes per act,
she felt morally satisfied. It made her feel like she
is better than every other girl, I've had before. It
made her feel special!!!

She was right! She was special and I really loved her.

So she continued to entertain me this way. To explore
other possibilities, one time she started to inserting
her finger inside of me. She realized, that if I enjoy
her tongue "almost" inside of me, I may enjoy her
finger as well. And she was right. I was kissing a
person I love, and my lovely girlfriend was kissing me
and as a part of entertainment, when she was touching
all over me, she slightly inserted her finger inside of
me. Just a little.

You know what? It felt good. I wasn't thinking about
other man, I wasn't thinking that she was kind of
f**king me, but I know it felt good, and I liked it.

It was just the next day, when I started to analyze
what just happened, I realized that I enjoyed of
something inside of me. I wasn't thinking about having
a man inside of me, but I did enjoyed her finger.

It took a little time before I made a research and
realized that male's anus has lots of erogenous zones,
that gives a great pleasure when it stretched. It is
in our anatomy. Every man has potential capability to
enjoying this. Unfortunately not every man tries.

Now, it's just a common sense to realize that if I
enjoy something inside of me, it should be normal to accept
another male's part of body.

But that's not all.

...We where apart for a few months. I was out of town.
When I called her, I told her that it is been awhile,
and for our young bodies it's normal for wanting a
sex, since there's not enough at the moment. I didn't
wanted her to cheat on me, and I didn't wanted to cheat
on her too. So I told her about something that many
people are a shame of even thinking, not even talking.
I told her to masturbate. And I told her that I have done
it and enjoying it. I didn't go through all the details
how and when. I just mentioned that it was a relief.

Just thing of it. You are not really cheating. You are
not endanger yourself with sexual transmitted deceases.
You are simply releasing the pressure that accumulated
in your body, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Decpite the fact that, I realised that she is not a
baby and probably tried it before (if not doing it
already) I continued to talk to her like I was asking
her for a favor.

I told her: you are not pervert, you are not doing
anything wrong. It is natural for human body. Everyone
has done it at least once. And you don't have to admit
about this to anybody, not even me. You can tell me
right now something like "yea, you're crazy", but when
you hang up the phone, you can do whatever you want.
Nobody sees you, not even me.

It seemed like a natural way to fulfill the emptiness,
when you don't want to involve someone else, isn't it?

...Time went by. I comeback to town. I can't tell
whether she followed my recommendations or what. But I
admitted to her that I did it. And it was fine with me.
In order to not to put her "in the spot" I never asked
her whether she had done it, but when I admitted to
her, I noticed that she was kind of excited about this
fact. It was something new to us. We started to joke
about this, and when we had sex one day I told her how
I've done it.

At that time I realized that it will turn me on like
crazy if I would see her masturbating. And there she
was, laying naked near me and wanted to watch me
"working on my own". So I gave her "the show". She saw
me masturbate especially for her. That sight turned her
on up to the craziness, and we had great sex
afterwards, but I remembered that she was turned on by
the sight of me touching myself.

After that she was basically forced me on playing with
myself before we had sex every time. She loved to watch
it, and I got used to it. I didn't mind in doing that.
It was pleasurable for me to see that I do something
that turns really on my lovely girlfriend. It became
kind of usual thing, she used to place her head on my
chest facing my private organs. She used to take my
hand and placed it on my penis, inviting me to touch
myself. I used to masturbate with one hand whlie
caressing her body with the other. And after I feel
that she is exited enough (usually obvious by the
amount of her "fluids"), we ended up with traditional
sex, and everyone was happy.

Again, it was a little later when I realized what I
really enjoyed. Another logical analysis had brought me
up to the speed, what I really did. I was touching
myself, and enjoyed it. Seems like no big deal, after
everything I tried before, but it really was. Since I
am a man, I was touching the male's body and enjoyed it
- yeah, my own. You may ask - so what? Every man has
done it. Most people do it constantly. But, that was a
big deal, because if you look at it the other way, I
wasn't just enjoying because "something" had touched
me. I was touching that "something" with my own hand
and enjoyed it (my penis, that is).

Please read again 2 previous sentences, because they
are very important!

My penis wasn't the only part of my body sensed the
pleasure, it was the arm as well.

That's when I realized that if I would touch someone
else's body I could like it almost the same way. That's
when, for the first time in my life I started of
thinking of touching another man. And it was normal,
because my hands already touched my penis, and I know
how that feels, and if I like it, I may as well like
the touching of another man.

So there I was, for the first time fantasized my being
with other man. But I wasn't a "man enough" to do this
in reality.

And even that wasn't all.

Let's admit, being a man we at least once had
fantasized how fun would that be with two women at the
same time. There's no guy in the world who would refuse
that (unless you're gay). And it is exciting sight for
many man to see two women enjoying each other. That was
the other drive, when I realized that it could be
enjoyable for my woman to see me with another man. I
was thinking if she would asked me to bring another
girl to bed - what would I feel?

Maybe I am complete idiot and 99% of women wouldn't
find it excited to be with two guys at the same time,
but I decided to gamble.

And I was right. Our conversation had revealed the
interest for my girlfriend to see me with another man.
I really loved her, and it turned me really on, the
fact that I could do something, that will "drive her
crazy" (in a good way). It was very enjoyable for me to
think that I could brought some pleasure to my women by
touching and being with another man. And when I asked
her: Does she wanted to be with two man at the same
time? The answer was obviously yes.

But the primary reason for bringing another man in our
bed, was love to my woman. I thought that it is selfish
to not let your partner to be with another person. If I
really love her, wouldn't I want her to be happy? We
all know that people are different, and being with
different partners may give you a slightly different
experience. And it seemed wrong to me that she would
have to loose that variety experience just because we
are a couple. Yet, jealousy and some of my "macho"
thoughts wouldn't let me receive enjoyment of seeing my
woman with another man.

So, to remove this block, I finally found the solution:
In order to not to get jealous of another man - I have
to learn to enjoy that other man. If I will think of
him as my own toy, then I can't be jealous at all. And
since the durty thought was already in my mind, it was
easy to convince myself to give it a try.

I used to be a jealous type of person, but after that I
saw this as an opportunity to give a new pleasure
experience to my woman. Yes, I can kiss her, I can
touch her and I can have her, but I can also do
something that not a lot of men can do, I can give her
a pleasure of being with another man. And since I am
able to do and arrange that, she was grateful to me for
the pleasure which she never experienced previously.
And that wasn't the fact of being with someone else. It
was a feeling of openness and true love, the love so
strong that will allow her to enjoy pure sex and
nothing else. I didn't shared my love. I loved her and
she really loved me too. I just loved her so much, that
I wanted her to enjoy everything, even another man.

When she understood my philosophy, she started to love
me even more. It was a great experience for both of
us.

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That was about 10 years ago. We split for some stupid
reason, which has nothing to do with sex, lust or my
bisexuality, because the sex was always great.

I was so secure in our relationship (and in my self)
that I wasn't afraid that she would like someone else
more than me.

To me, another man was just a sex-toy, which I let my
girl to play with

But, can you love your partner so much that you would
let her or him to be with another person, just for fun?]]> http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/121/how-i-become-bisexual/ Sun, 27 Dec 2009 23:10:04 +0000 admin Can Anyone be Truly Bisexual? http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/118/can-anyone-be-truly-bisexual/
A piece exploring reasons why many women claim to be bisexual.

Can anyone be truly bisexual?

Probably, but this article isn’t about those people. There are obviously people who actually are gay, lesbian, and even bisexual, but there are also people who claim to be something that they are not for attention. This article is about the people, mostly women, who claim to be bisexual, but are either simply confused or who purposely use this sexual identity to gain an edge over other women for the attention of men.

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Lesbians like sushi and bisexuals like hot dogs and sushi. Lesbians would never be interested in eating hot dogs. A lesbian can eat sushi all day every day and never consider hot dogs. In fact, lesbians can never eat too much sushi. A bisexual can go without sushi, then really miss the feel and taste of sushi, because there is nothing like sushi. Then they go out and get some sushi. They swear they can go without hot dogs, because sushi is so much better. They start to eat sushi all day every day. The lesbian continues to do the same.

Then one day the sushi is a little stale and the bisexual remembers how hot dogs are different. She didn't have that problem with hot dogs, at least not that she can remember. Eating hot dogs was easier and less complicated. The lesbian does not start to crave a hot dog when this happens. The lesbian knows she only likes sushi, so even though it got stale, she is still focused only on the sushi. She wants the sushi to get better, because she knows really great sushi is hard to find. The bisexual won't try as hard to figure out why the sushi got stale. Sooner or later she will do what is easier. She will go out for a hot dog. There are hot dogs on every corner and she knows she'll have a few to choose from soon enough. Perhaps she will just have hot dogs for a long time or will try some hot dog rolls or sushi dogs. This is why I prefer lesbians. The only problem is that they may go out for some completely different sushi, thinking that the new sushi will be different. But at least they are aren't out eating hot dogs.]]> http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/108/re-bisexuals/ Tue, 08 Dec 2009 01:40:57 +0000 admin Why are there more bisexual women then bisexual men? http://bisexualspace.com/community/forum/thread/79/why-are-there-more-bisexual-women-then-bisexual-men/ nytimes.com — Not everyone is bi/curious. A lot more women are than men. It's because the brain is very different in the sexes -- and in different sexual orientations.


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Dannii Minogue apologises for X Factor bisexual joke

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Minogue was referring to an interview given by Danyl earlier that week in which he revealed that he was bisexual. Today she has released a statement on her ...
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